Balancing is very
important in life and each aspect in this cosmos is related and affects each
other in significant ways.
We say there are 4
elements which are Earth, Fire, Water and Air. Consider any of these to be in
excess or in dearth; all the other elements will be badly affected. When these
elements are effected, people are affected as well. For example, in India
farmers wait for the rains; if these rains happen in excess the crop is
affected which affects farmers and us equally; if it rains less then too the
crop is affected. But this is not in our hands.
Let’s look at what
is in our hands. We are all a combination of Mind, Body and Soul. If any of
these three things goes imbalanced; our existence goes for a toss! We can
experience damages not only on our body which are physical damages but on our
mind through stress and mental tortures and in turn to our soul because we
might not be dissolving our Karmas but further adding to them.
a first step to balancing; I personally feel that we need awareness, patience
and unconditional love for oneself and each other to create this balance. I
believe in destiny but I also believe in the 90/10 theory of action and
reaction. 10 is what our destiny throws at us and 90 is how we react to it.
This is what I say awareness. We should be aware and patient to distinguish
this 10 & 90 as this 10 might not be in our hand but certainly the 90 is!
And then we need unconditional love for ourselves and others to learn, forgive
& forget which will balance not only us but our surroundings, our family
and society at large.