Category: Relationships

handling breakups

9 Real Ways to Handle Break-Ups

‘I think I’ll never be able to get over her. She wasn’t perfect, Roosh. But she was mine. I miss her sarcastic comments. That small smirk on her face when she got jealous. It’s like–’ ‘Are you serious, Sayyam? Arghh! I can’t believe you fall right into it every time....


Real Communication to Heal Relationships

We are living in a world of technology. Just a phone call away from our friends and family. International calls are free due to many applications. Due to social networking sites, many old friends are found again and got in touch again. To kill loneliness people seek friends on social...


Myths and Truths of Speed Dating

Questioning the fact why he did for what he did. Or, ‘why did she block me? I didn’t even do anything.’ Hidden in our minds, is the process to find logics to every situation, without which we won’t survive. But, is the answer really out there for you to find?...

Bed Date and beyond3

Bed, Date and Beyond!

You know how they just come and go from our lives without any clue. Several days of texting and calling, without any revert backs. It’s upsetting as hell! Specially, when you’re emotionally vulnerable and prone to getting attached faster than a Bugatti! Yes, I’m referring to the current dating fads,...

Relationships in the age of Speed Dating

Relationships in the Age of Speed-Dating

The definition of romance has changed, even the kind of dating we prefer has taken a different path. Ever since I tried this online dating app, my curiosity grew more. ‘Girl meets boy’ is no longer the ideal form. It’s not like lesbian or gay couples didn’t exist earlier, but people know and accept more now. With time, ma

The Forty Rules of Love by Elif Shafak

Book Review : The Forty Rules of Love by Elif Shafak

A thriller elucidating a varying perspective on Sufism, Islamic mysticism, faith and most of all – Self Love, one finds it totally difficult to come out of the grasping visuals painted beautifully by the author herein.

Cut Your Cords

Cut Your Cords – Clear Your Attachments

If you have been feeling drained and exhausted off late especially after interacting with someone physically or over the phone or Internet, you may have negative energy cords attached to them. If you have a problematic association or interaction with someone and you are connected to them strongly on an emotional level, the cord cutting can help you immensely by clearing the negative energy and creating space for clearer communication.

Roots of Relationship

Roots of Relationships

Relationships are an invitation for each one of us to dive and look inside of ourselves. A very real and practical ground for spirituality to flower within us and discover all shades, aspects of ourselves. With the busyness of our lives, and the habitual patterns we are caught up in, we often do not look tenderly and intimately within ourselves and see the undercurrent of our relationships. Are we innocent, vulnerable, genuine?  In a very simple human way, are we in connection with ourselves and the significant others in our lives?

Friendship is Higher Than Love

Friendship Is Higher Than Love

Friendship has a higher quality than love. The next step of love is friendship. Not that it is lower, as it is understood ordinarily; it is not. In love there is passion, lust; love is more rooted in the physical. Friendship is purer, not rooted in the sexual at all....

3 mistakes that keep you stuck in unhappy relationships

3 Mistakes That Keep You Stuck And Unhappy In Relationships

1. Stuffed Closet Syndrome 2. Its not my Fault 3. Old wine in a new bottle 1. Stuffed Closet Syndrome What? Stuffed closet syndrome refers to the situation when we keep suppressing negative emotions, memories and past events in our relationships without really resolving them because its too painful or depressing...

9 Signs

9 Signs That You Are In A Wrong Relationship

Being in relationships can be a beautiful experience but it can be confusing and difficult as well. Many a times people ask me how do I know if this guy is the right one for me or should I date this guy or not or I am not sure what’s...


Friendship – The Most Precious Gem

Life is unimaginable without friends. Friends act as a life line at times of need. If someone asks me why friends in my life come on the top, because I was not given the choice to choose my parents, siblings and other relatives…. Rather I was born in certain circumstances...

in laws

In laws – Your Laws or Mine!

One of the many relationships in human life is that of the In-laws. If you choose to get married, that is, or maybe get out of a marriage. An “in-law” has b


My Relationship

Thirty years of our life Being spent as husband and wife Has been a journey quite unique Sometimes swimming deep beneath Sometimes walking on mountain peak No path of life is free from obstacle Success depends on how you tackle Over expectation is bad for love to grow And ego...


Rishta – Nibh Jaye to Baat Kya!

कहीं नहीं मिलते, कहीं ख़रीदे नहीं जा सकते कहीं से ढूंढे नहीं जाते कहीं से उग के नहीं आते यह बनते है इंसानो से कुछ बनते है म


Unconditional Love Or Sick Relationships

There is only one possibility for sanity to exist in relationships so they don’t turn into inferiority and superiority games, so they don’t become sado-masochistic tortures. And that only possibility is in the presence of an unconditional love. Love is the greatest alchemy.


Why People End Their Relationships

At a workshop in Mexico last month, I invited the audience to brainstorm a list of reasons for ending a relationship. Why do people break up? The group came up with about 40 different reasons. I’m sure if we kept going, we could have come up with dozens more. I also...

Perfect Love Affair

Perfect Love Affair

“There’s a picture in my memory of the days when we first met, when solo became duet. It’s a perfect love affair” ~Anita Baker Looking in the same direction… Huge crowds thronged the grounds. Preparations were on to host the Youth Festival. He elbowed people aside as he moved through...